The Valentine's Day Gifts to Treat Yourself To, According to Our Editors

Who says you need a valentine to celebrate February 14? And even if you do have a special someone, who says that you can't buy yourself something nice for the romantic holiday? We're all about self-love here at SwearBy, so if you are in need of an excuse to gift yourself something pretty, consider this it. From a cozy matching set to a bottle of sparkling wine, here are the gifts our SwearBy editors are treating themselves to this Valentine's Day.

UrbanStems The Verona Bouquet

“One of my favorite ways to add a pop of color to my apartment is to decorate with a bouquet or two, so most of the time there’s a vase of fresh flowers that I get from the corner bodega sitting on my windowsill. But whenever I want to treat myself to something more special, I turn to UrbanStems for gorgeous bouquets that will be delivered straight to my door. And for Valentine’s Day as a gift to myself, I’m ordering UrbanStems’ Verona bouquet, complete with English roses in one of my favorite colors (pink!). UrbanStems’ high-quality flowers always last me a few weeks, and they’re bound to be a bright spot in my apartment.” –Nina Huang

Elke Cotton Tank And Cardigan Set

“For Valentine’s Day this year, I’ll be gifting myself cozy, comfy loungewear — like this matching cardigan set from Reformation. It’s perfect for wearing with silk pajama bottoms, leggings, and (if I’m feeling ambitious) jeans. I also like that I can wear the pieces alone or together so it’s just as versatile as it is stylish.” –Stephanie Perry

Ansel Table Lamp

“Spending so much time in my apartment this past year has really put me in a decorating mindset, and I’ve been eyeing so many fun pieces to spruce the place up, including this lamp. A “soft glow” sounds like the perfect addition to any room, and I’ll definitely be gifting this to myself in the near future.” –Maya Gandara

Cozy Cool Girl Lounge Set

“I will never not treat myself throughout the year, but Valentine’s Day offers an excuse to do so in the name of self love and self care — even if it’s just pulling the trigger on something that’s been in my cart for weeks. I’ve been eyeing up this lounge set from Free People for awhile now, and can’t wait to lounge around in it and indulge in some serial killer documentaries and Thai food because that’s the way to my own heart.” –Jayla Andrulonis

Usual Brut

“Nothing is more fun than popping a bottle of bubbly, but it’s tough to finish a whole bottle by yourself. That’s why sparkling wine from Usual is perfect for a single gal like myself on Valentine’s Day. The wine delivery service lets you order wine portioned by the glass so you can enjoy it with someone special or solo.”- Christie Calucchia

Porter Road Bone-In Ribeye

“I’m not really a fan of Valentine’s Day because my birthday is February 13th, meaning it’s a battle to get a table at *any* restaurant to celebrate with my friends. Of course, this year is different. Instead of going out, I’m planning a special Valentine’s Birthday in and treating myself to a dry-aged steak from Porter Road. Known for its high-quality hand-cut meats, Porter Road regularly visits its partner farms to ensure animals are raised outside, fed vegetarian, non-GMO feed, and given proper attention at every stage. The result is meat so tender and flavorful, it melts in your mouth like butter. I’m sure it will make my night sizzle.” –Katie Macdonald

Trudon Abd El Kader Candle

“A beautiful scent instantly changes my mood and I adore this candle from Trudon. It smells so good that I wish it followed me wherever I went. The moment I light this candle, it magically transports me to a different headspace and a lush land of Moroccan mint.” — Monica Wang 

Tiny Tags Gold Skinny Bar Necklace

“While it’s nice to receive jewelry, it also makes a great gift for yourself. If you have a little one, consider treating yourself to a beautiful piece from Tiny Tags. I have their Gold Skinny Bar Necklace which features my daughter’s name on the front and her birthdate on the back. It’s such an elegant and dainty necklace, and most of all, so incredibly meaningful.” — Sara Tan 

I am Karla, the Editorial Coordinator for SwearBy. Life moves pretty fast, and nothing makes me happier than curating the amazing product recommendations from this community so women can discover the best new products, quickly. Outside of SwearBy HQ, I spend my days with my kids, dogs, husband...and TRY to find time to travel and hang with friends